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- Volume 1, Issue 4
November 11, 1998
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The Funny Things EP Kids Say!
EP Times -- An Editorial
- EP Q&A
- Making Money Matters
What's It Worth?
EP Member Profile
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What's Happening at EP
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THE FUNNY THINGS EP KIDS SAY!
Submitted by EPnews subscriber,
Shannen Markus, mother of two boys:
My five-year old son started pre-school when he was three years
old. I was
concerned about his adjustment period and asked details about
his day every
night. The end of the first week I asked my typical "How
was your day
today?" questions and he replied with, "Well, this
boy was being mean to me
but I wanted to play the same game as everybody else so I stayed.
boy told me to mind my own business." I then asked my son
what he said to
the boy, and he replied "I told him that I don't *have*
a business!" I just
laughed so hard I had tears in my eyes. I told him he said the
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-- AN EDITORIAL
"EPs and the Holiday Season:
A Day at the Beach?"
© 1998 by Lisa
OK, OK, Halloween is over. Everyone
else on the block has their scarecrows,
skeletons, pumpkin faces, ghosts and various Halloween what-not
back in boxes and up in their attics. Ours, of course, are still
passers-by. So what else is new? We're the last to put our holiday
trimmings up and the last to pull them down. It's a given every
This is because the holiday season
always feels like the surge of an ocean
wave to me -- I'm never quite ready for it, but once I'm "in"
I manage to
go with the flow. And have fun. The kids, of course, push me
in...ready or not. They're bringing home seasonal school projects
before I've even taken a look at the calendar to see what holiday
what day this year. They're planning costumes, Thanksgiving desserts,
lists and loud noise-making devices while I stand by our kitchen
fixated at the summer toys still laying in the backyard. (Did
come and go? Any chance I can get it back?)
Naturally, this time of year
is also the peak business season for most
entrepreneurial parents. Whether you sell products or services,
your workload is growing more and more demanding. That's because
consumers have their credit cards and checkbooks on-the-ready
purchases -- whether it be gift-buying, house-decorating or menu-planning.
If you're selling products, orders are on the rise, leading to
in order processing, fulfillment and invoicing. And if your clientele
fellow business owners, they are feeling cramped for time just
and are ready to outsource whatever they can. If you're selling
being at the right place at the right time will yield unexpected
and this time of year the right place is nearly everywhere your
are...and the right time is now!
So it's not at all unusual to
find yourself, as an EP, pondering how you're
going to spruce up your living room for holiday company at the
your home office turns into a veritable disaster area. If that's
you're at, take heart. There *are* practical ways you can reconcile
work and family life during the holiday season. Here are a few
tips in a
. . . S I M P L I F Y . . .
Simplifying during the holidays
can be an especially hard task for EPs
because they value both their family life and professional life
It's difficult to think about shaving off a few holiday traditions
being such a perfectionist about certain business tasks just
when you feel
the pull to shift into high gear for both. But if you want to
live to see
the New Year with a smile on your face, it's wise to cut back
think about where and what and how, then *do* it. For instance,
hosting Thanksgiving Dinner, do you really need to have a pumpkin,
AND apple pie for dessert? If you send free newsletters to your
or clients every month, do they *have* to be as content-impressive
during other months
(after all, who has the time to read now anyway)? And so on.
. . . D E L E G A T E . . .
Like in Thanksgiving pies to
your guests. (OK, I admit...I'm hosting
Thanksgiving Dinner this year and have pies on the brain.) And
be sure to
pass on household cleaning chores to all family members, since
just you alone who may be hosting company but your whole family.
don't be shy about outsourcing the following: business tasks
bookkeeping, data entry, copywriting and troubleshooting; parent
homework checking to older siblings and caregiving to childcare
and finally, homeowner tasks like fall trimming and leaf raking.
. . . M O V E O N . . .
This one is for me (anyone else
out there with black bat silhouettes still
in the window??). It's time to take down the Halloween decorations
on to Thanskgiving preparations. I've already taken the first
saying "begone!" to all that Halloween candy. With
four children, we have
four times more candy than we need in this house!! The other
day I asked my
kids to pick out 10 of their favorite candies each from their
plastic pumpkins, and then think about donating the rest to the
hospitals who didn't get a chance to trick or treat. Each of
them went for
the idea surprisingly well! My mother has the bag of treasures
and key in her house, and will make the phone calls of inquiry.
traces of this year's Halloween are safely in our memories and
else, we can await the next wave of holiday activity with fresh
Like a day at the beach, by the
end of this holiday season there's a good
chance you'll be exhausted -- yet feel healthy, alive and invigorated
Here's to a New Year's Day that will find each of us out cold
on the living
room sofa...and wearing smiles during our hard-earned rest.
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We'll be glad
to help you out if we can!
Q. I have questions about receiving
clients at my home. We are presently
renting our home, and it is not in the condition we would like
it to be. Do
you have any suggestions or resources that can help me make a
basement into an inviting office for my clients to visit? Remember
renting...so it needs to be inexpensive.
Second, is it okay if the office
space/basement is also a den area? Or
should I separate the two?
Do you suggest I make these office
arrangements before my clientele grows?
At this time it is beginning to trickle, and I am faithfully
trickle to flow freely soon.
"The Write Way Business Services" and "Mother
A. Dear Tia,
Congratulations on a busy, growing
business! Keep up your enthusiasm, and
don't let a dreary basement drag you down! Here are some solutions
I know of a couple who work at
home together and used to meet clients in
parking lots rather than invite them to their home office! Their
was to renovate half of their basement, but let me warn you --
it's a long
and time-consuming process which costs lots of money. So if I
were you, I
wouldn't renovate any room in a rental apartment.
You don't always have to meet
your clients in your home. There are lots of
inexpensive, professional options:
--> If you feel comfortable,
and you feel you have the type of clients that
would feel just as comfortable -- why not meet in your dining
--> Meet outside the home
in the lobby of a local hotel. Lots of hotels
today are set up for such meetings. Buy your client a cup of
coffee in a
most professional atmosphere. Or, go have "tea" there
in the late
afternoon. When I worked as an editor on a magazine, lots of
publicists took me to tea at a local hotel. It was comfortable,
and professional. I never thought twice about it, and always
to doing it.
--> One home-based worker
I know does this: he asks the local hotel manager
if there is a meeting room free for one hour, and if there is,
rent it. He's usually successful and the managers usually let
him use the
room for free if he buys a pot of coffee or such.
--> Find a Kinko's near you
-- they have meeting rooms.
--> Your local library has
conference rooms for free!
--> Find an "executive
suite" (listed under office space rentals or
"executive suites" in your phone book) -- they rent
office space by the
hour, and it may fit into your budget depending on where you
doesn't hurt to call for rates -- lots of home-based businesses
type of office an hour at a time.
--> I don't know if you are
renting in a condo area, but if you are,
perhaps there's a meeting room your condo "rents" out
to people that live
in the area.
To further answer your second
question -- sure it's okay to use your den as
a home office. But what do you use your den for? Do you have
kids that will
use the den when you need to work? If so, it may not be the best
If you can use the den when kids are at school and turn the den
them after school, great. You will need to somehow "train"
anyone who uses
the den to keep their hands off of your home office equipment
Every family has different ways of handling this. Some people
up around their workspace when they aren't using it which signals
to stay away. Others have computer armoires that they close when
aren't working (again, an expensive solution). Others just verbally
family members to be considerate of that corner of the den where
office is located. It can be done!
My best wishes to you for your
Marilyn Zelinsky, author of "Practical
Home Office Solutions" and "New
Workplaces for New Workstyles" -- both available at the
MAKING MONEY MATTERS
Oops! We ran out of survey responses
for this issue. Catch us next time! :-)
- "Ways to Save with Credit
- by deB
Thinking of buying that big family
gift, or a computer for the kids so you
don't have to share? EP member Arlene Jacobs (our selected "Member
-- see below!) shares some ways to use credit carefully and wisely
can make that big purchase without paying high interest rates.
"I bought my computer on
credit -- with no interest for 6 months. I figured
out how much I would need to pay each month if I were to pay
completely in that 6-month time period, and instead of making
the credit card company I've been putting the difference in a
account (and getting interest on it!), waiting for the 6 months
Then I plan to send in the balance on the computer and have it
"You can find these no interest
for XX days or XX months for lots of
things, including furniture (popular big purchase items during
season). I do this for car repairs too, where I don't have the
cash to pay
for those unexpected breakdowns.
"We have one credit card
which pays cash back at the end of the year and we
really, really try not to keep a balance on it. We have a Visa
which withdraws directly from our checking account for places
take personal checks."
Arlene's suggestions are excellent
if you use credit, but if you prefer to
pay cash for what you buy, consider some easy incentives for
family to save towards that big purchase or gift-buying seasons.
---> Decorate a shoebox with
wrapping paper for that event or holiday, cut
a small hole in the top, and make a weekly ritual for each person
deposit their share for that week. When the event arrives, *unwrap*
money and make the buying a special event in itself.
---> Instead of cash allowances,
give the kids vouchers or receipts for
whatever percent of their money goes to a savings box or even
account where it can draw interest. Many banks offer a free savings
for minors to checking account customers. Just be sure to put
that money in
yourself, because it does add up quickly and if you skip it might
difficult to pay back all at once.
---> Institute a penalties
jar that family members will have to contribute
set amounts to if they skip a household chore or some other minor
infraction of household rules. Use the money saved in the jar
for a family
outing or shared purchase. Keep the amount small, like a quarter
and adults and a nickel or penny for smaller children, so that
hurt too much to pay the jar or create negative feelings towards
---> Produce your coupons
after paying for your groceries and receive the
cash back (ask first if your store will do this, most will).
immediately put that money aside and plan to spend it on a non-essential
bill, such as the cable TV or ISP, or a credit card purchase.
If you're not
making enough to cover that bill, challenge yourself and your
increase the couponing efforts with that bill amount as your
deBorah Sechrist is the mother of three, Co-Founder of The Entrepreneurial
Parent and owner of deBweB, a web design business. Find out more
EP MEMBER PROFILE
Selected straight from our "EP
Showcase." If you'd like to purchase your
own EP Profile Page and spread the word about your home career
on our web
site and in EPnews, read how to do so at: http://en-parent.com/faq.htm
EP: Arlene E. Jacobs, Mom to
2 children, ages 2 & 4
Freelance Writer, mostly for Parenting Magazines
Advertising Salesperson, for a local parenting publication, selling
advertising space to local businesses
Avon Representative, selling Avon products to family & friends
HOME CAREER DEFINING MOMENT: When I knew that I could make enough
buy my new computer!
EP ADVICE: Remember your priorities. Sometimes I find myself
with the children for interrupting my "work" and I
have to remind myself
that the reason I'm working at home is to be with my children!
remember that working at home is work! If you don't put in the
won't get the results. You need to be very organized and self-disciplined.
It's very easy to wake up in the morning and decide to lounge
instead of making those phone calls.
FULL CONTACT INFO:
Arlene E. Jacobs
713 Sir Michael Drive
Montgomery, AL 36109-4413
Phone: (334) 270-4038
Fax: (334) 396-6759
Email: [email protected]
To learn more about what Arlene has to say, visit her full profile
DigitalWork @ www.digitalwork.com
DigitalWork is the Internet's
premier, one-stop business center designed
specifically to help small businesses operate and grow more effectively.
Through partnerships with leading business service providers,
develops and delivers online tools that help small business managers
complete a broad range of their most common business tasks from
to end. These tasks range from marketing their business and finding
employees to researching sales prospects and managing cash flow.
DigitalWork currently has more than two dozen business service
WHAT'S HAPPENING AT EP
The EP Community is growing steadily,
with new subscribers and new members
signing up daily. All continue to be served by our EP Expert
professionally-written Q&As are truly a unique and useful
resource here at
EP. What's on our "Wish List"? We *would* like to see
more volunteers "step
up to bat" and become active members. (See "Volunteers
in Action" below for
A few days ago we were able to
share some publicity leads with all our
EPnews subscribers. Good luck to the many of you who responded!
are no guarantees that your stories will be selected, if you
profile it's always worth the time to give it a shot. If you
do get an
interview, please let us know so we can share the good news!
Finally, "behind the scenes"
here we are working on bringing a new "EP
Coach" on board who specializes in parent-child communication,
a stronger "Dad" voice to our EP Community, and on
developing a fun and
exciting new product line specifically for Entreprenerial Parents.
progress is ever- slow when "family comes first and career
second" -- as is
always the case with Lisa and deB -- we *are* moving forward
so stay with
Meanwhile, what's new at the
EP web site?
For Your Business:
Medical Transcription Central
below for details!)
Globalize Your Business @ http://en-parent.com/Articles/art-heaton.htm
For Your Family:
Practical Wisdom for Single Parents,
Part II: Raising Your Village @
Home Office: The Childcare Solution? @
New EP Expert Q&As:
Our EP Relationship Expert, Azriela
Jaffe, has a new Q&A page up @:
Our EP Home Office Design Expert,
Marilyn Zelinsky, has a new Q&A page up @:
Our EP Homeschooling Expert,
Joe Spataro, has a new Q&A page up @:
Our EP Recordkeeping/Tax Expert,
Jan Zobel, has a new Q&A page up @
You'll also find new Q&As,
on the subjects of business start-up, career
counseling, work-family transitions, low-cost marketing, web
and general parenting issues, at:
Thanks to all of you who are
sending in those questions! You are keeping
our Experts busy and adding value to The Entrepreneurial Parent
at the same
A CALL FOR VOLUNTEERS:
As mentioned in Issue #2, Lizette
Williams, an EPnews Subscriber, has been
collecting information on the Medical Transcription field. She
her findings recently and we now have an "Medical Transcription
mini-site! If you are exploring this work option, check it out
Many thanks to Liz, who was so
encouraged by her findings that she has decided to move forward
with her MT
training. We wish her much success!!
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