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- Volume 1, Issue 3
October 28, 1998
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The Funny Things EP Kids Say!
EP Times -- An Editorial
- EP Q&A
- Making Money Matters
What's It Worth?
EP Member Profile
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THE FUNNY THINGS EP KIDS SAY!
Submitted by EPnews subscriber,
My daughter had always been rather possessive of me and my time
when she was a
toddler. At one of my "art lunches" (gatherings of
true friends and potential
clients at our house which usually starts late morning and goes
on to late
afternoon), I met a girl who was later to become a mentor, a
My daughter noticed this special
buzz between us and came to sit with us.
Well, we talked and ate and drank and exchanged ideas well into
night...until everyone else had gone home. We were so absorbed
in our chat
we'd quite forgotten this three-year old sitting there, obviously
enough to keep quiet for so long. Little did I know she was simply
and taking in everything that was going on.
We suddenly noticed the quiet
and my daughter (finding a gap in our
conversation) asked my new-found friend with "concern"
in her voice, "Haven't
you got a home to go to?...Does this mean you are coming to live
This same "old spirit" (as I now call her) continued
to speak her mind as she
grew older. I remember more recently I had been waiting for the
outcome of a
major (for me) presentation for a commissioned job. True to character,
gathered everyone else in the household and willed them to be
as expectant as
I was. Well my seven year old (at the time) wasn't having any
of this "shared
emotion." After days of talking and thinking about nothing
else, she finally
had to say her peace. We were baking and she quietly said, "You're
only artist in the world you know!" To which I replied,
"Well, to Daddy I am."
With a giggle she had to have
the last word, "Well what does he know!"
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EP TIMES -- AN EDITORIAL
Lessons from a Piano Teacher"
© 1998 by Lisa
My children's piano teacher strikes
me as an exceptionally warm human being.
Her dark brown eyes immediately radiate peace, joy and compassion,
and she is
quick to smile with a sincerity that is rare.
Last week, however, my kids and
I were in her hot seat. We were squirming
around her kitchen table, apologizing and making promises to
do better. Her
declared. "Sometimes you two come here and shine. Other
times, like today, you come and can barely play a single note!"
She turned to
my 11-year old daughter. "Now if you didn't study algebra,
would you pass your
math test?" Then to my 8-year old son. "If you didn't
play catch with your
brother after school, would you be a useful player on the ball
both: "You must practice *every day* if you want to play
Sometimes I feel inconsistency
is my middle name, so my posture fell along
with my kids that afternoon. It was, after all, my responsibility
as a parent
paying for weekly piano lessons to make sure the kids were practicing
day. And now I worried, with such a scolding, that they would
having to show up there again.
Ye of little faith. What didn't
occur to me at the time is that we were
dealing with one sharp entrepreneur! Carolina Sanchez*, a home-based
owner after my own heart, knew what she was doing. She was expressing
expections of her clients -- building a business relationship
based on honest
communication -- in a language that made sense to them. In their
weekly half-hour lessons, she had *paid attention* to them --
made each tick, what each felt passionate about. My daughter
loved math; my
son loved baseball. In the awkwardness of the moment when she
disappointment, they still felt understood by her. And, sure
enough, no sooner
had the front door slammed behind them when they came home then
immediately sat down on the piano bench to go over their individual
Building loyalty with a clientele
is tricky but imperative business for most
entrepreneurs. While the teacher/student relationship is certainly
norm for the vast majority of business owners, a lesson for all
can still be
learned from the above example. *Listening* to your clients --
they are, what they're about, where they want to go -- is the
gesture you can make at initial visitation with a new client.
And with every
interaction after that, *listening* becomes the foundation upon
build a solid relationship. If a client feels truly understood
by you, they
are likely to remain loyal beyond expectation.
Another effective tool Ms. Sanchez
uses to build client loyalty is creating
client-to-client camaraderie. In addition to encouraging small
clients in between one lesson to the next, this Friday she's
first annual Halloween Party for all her students. She challenges
"Bring the weirdest gourd you can find!" on the invitation
-- a mission that
my kids have spent the last two weeks embracing. Creating a social
of your clientele is a remarkable way to cement evolving business
relationships. It's fun, creative and memorable. Plus it makes
each guest --
each client -- feel special.
One final note on the sharp entrepreneurial
instincts of my favorite local
work-at-home pro. My family met Carolina Sanchez when she first
town, shortly after we did, about two years ago. She was the
Music Director of
our church, and during one crowded mass we enjoyed listening
to her play up
close on the balcony. How did we know she also taught piano lessons?
handwritten scrap paper she taped onto a far wall, with the words
Lessons" boldly marked. Not only did she use her community
spread the word about the availability of her home business,
but her work --
the music she played -- was on display at the very site of her
It's like posting a sign on a well-manicured lawn that says "Harry's
Services," or dropping a business card in each child's goody
bag that says,
"Jenny's Party Planning." It's advertising that strikes
when the iron is hot.
Ms. Sanchez is an example of
an entrepreneur who doesn't use the "hard sell"
approach typically attributed to successful business owners.
resourceful without being aggressive, honest without being disrespectful,
loving without being irresponsible. By using her personality
to connect with
her clients, and her skills to help them reach their goals, she
them to come back week after week, year after year. She works
with who she is
to create a thriving part-time home business...and so can you!
*Her name is changed here for
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Q: I am a work outside mom (33
yrs old). I have one child (6) and one
stepdaughter (11). For the past month or so, or at least when
I purchased my
new computer and started surfing the web, I have been seeking
a way that I can
stay at home w/ my children but yet contribute to the household
this point I am trying to decide if we can afford for me to quit
my job and
maintain our budget. I am planning on searching more sties and
links to look
for more answers.
I just hope there is something
out there for me to do to help support my
family by working at home, so that I can spend more time with
my family. The
stress of working outside the home is making a monster of me,
and the constant
rushing after work hours (supper, baths, homework, etc...), is
At this point, I admire all those
who manage a family, marriage and a career
from home!!! I just hope I can find a way to be a part of that
type of group.
Do you have any advice you can send my way?
Take care and God Bless you and
your family and all your efforts to help those
A: Dear Donna,
I sense your strong motivation,
which is a powerful ingredient as you plow
through the necessary steps to transition to an at-home career.
As you are
researching at-home career possibilities while continuing your
you may want to "practice" living on only your husband's
income for a few
months to see if leaving your outside job is financially feasible
in the near
future. This will likely involve developing a stricter household
cutting discretionary spending. Savings can usually be found
in the eating
out, wardrobe and recreation categories, among others.
You might find Quicken Deluxe
98 useful for its handy budgeting tools
features. You'll find some helpful family budgeting resources
and ongoing money management features
As you do your cost-cutting,
use your current job income to pay off any
consumer debt you might have and to save up for your start-up
Remember, in terms of income and profits, a new business is often
characterized by lean months (or years) in the early stages,
so you want to
have a financial cushion to keep you going through to the growing
stages of your at-home enterprise.
Many mothers I've worked with
have found relief in the work/family time
conflict by successfully negotiating a flexible work arrangement
current job. Such an arrangement allows for a steady income as
you plan for
your transition to at-home career status.
Developing a solid plan and written
proposal to "pitch" to your boss is the
first step to securing the new work arrangement, whether it be
work day, shortened work week or telecommuting. Since your children
school, a shortened work day of say, six hours a day, may help
"monster" that rears its head due to rushing, stress
and fatigue. With more
"breathing space" between work and home responsibilities,
you can enjoy more
time with your family during the dinner and evening hours, plus
carve out more
time and energy to research, plan -- and even start -- your new
Once you and your husband agree
that your finances and your business plan are
well in place, you can be confident that the time for leaving
your outside job
and completing the transition to an at-home career will have
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MAKING MONEY MATTERS
Being available to your kids
and managing a career under one roof sounds to
many like the best of both worlds, but without pulling in some
kind of income
what's all the effort for? Making Money Matters! This week Barbara
The Professional Pen shares her marketing tips with us (you can
at [email protected]). If
you'd like to share your money-making tips with the
EP Community, email "[email protected]"
w/ the Subject: "Making $$," and
we'll send you our survey.
1. What is your home business?
The Professional Pen provides
quality marketing and writing services to small
businesses, home-based businesses, and private-practice professionals
2. What are the most popular
services (or products) you sell? Do you charge by
the hour or by the project, and how did you find the right fee
Brochures and press releases
are the most popular products. I generally charge
by the hour, but several times a year I run specials, which are
priced as a
project. Finding the right fee schedule was really a matter of
error. I surveyed other businesses to get a "going rate",
added to that amount
to reflect my personalized services, subtracted from that amount
to reflect my
lower overhead. Sometimes I underpriced a project, and swallowed
sometimes I overestimated a project, and lost the client to a
3. What are *your* favorite services
(or products)? Why do you like to sell
I enjoy designing flyers and
brochures, since I get to use the CorelDRAW!
program, which is great fun. When a client gives me free rein,
I get to
explore my creativity, and produce some really outstanding pieces.
4. Tell us a bit about your marketing
campaign. When did you start noticing
your first sales (after which marketing technique), what marketing
have you noticed yield the greatest results, and how do you make
contact and subsequent sale (via online, phone, fax, mail, face-to-face?).
Word-of-mouth has been the most
effective in terms of getting paying clients.
My web-site garners a lot of "look-see" traffic, but
few visitors go on to
become clients. I send a letter and brochure to every person
that applies for
a business license in my community, which gets me a lot of calls
advice! Since I service clients throughout the country, I usually
via mail, e-mail or phone first. If I see a new business opening
always pop in to leave a card and brochure (which are always
in my car). I
have recently begun to target private-practice professionals
therapists, counselors, etc.) and have attended conferences to
services. It's too soon to tell how this is working.
5. Any additional comments are
I just want to urge parents not
to give up. You probably won't see a profit
for a year or two, and it will be frustrating. Just hang in there!
- "Making the Holidays More
- by deB
As the last leaves fall from
the trees our thoughts turn to the upcoming
holiday season. It's easy to get caught up in the spending flurry,
that one perfect gift for our kids, getting just a little something
about everyone we know, splurging a bit on that last minute shopping
to get it done. But most of us are on budgets too tight to allow
and a little planning using today's technology can help.
If you're a seasoned pro at cutting
costs, you might already know the usual
tips for keeping holiday spending under control: set budgets
and stick to
them, leave the charge cards at home, make gifts instead of buying
gifts in the Sunday comics or use the inside of paper grocery
with sponge or cut vegetable prints.
How about your holiday card list?
So many people are "connected" now that you
could send a virtual card (from any of several free sites on
the web) or make
a holiday greeting page for your website. Send the URL to all
your friends who
can view it, and only send actual cards or holiday newsletters
to those who
don't yet have an Internet connection. This is also a great free
network with your online clients and friends. (NOTE: don't send
gif or jpg
files attached to email unless you know the recipient's ISP and
will accept them without problems -- just send the URL to be
Families can cut costs by drawing
names instead of buying for each individual
family member, or giving one gift for the entire family instead
individuals. Baked goodies, homemade fudge and decorated cookies
send a loving
message at minimal cost -- plan a weekend for the family to make
the containers, the next weekend for treat preparation and packing.
well for homemade cards and gifts too -- tailor the activity
children's ages and have a great time creating a special gift
for everyone on
your list. Or use your computer to make holiday cards, calendar
stationery sets and other paper gifts.
Boost your business to supplement
the holiday budget by offering seasonal
products, holiday discounts or gift certificates. Use your holiday
announce these offers and send it out by early December. If time's
send your message later in the month and offer a New Year special
you do send out printed greetings to clients, consider using
format-postage is only 20 cents versus the 32 cents for a traditional
deBorah Sechrist is the mother of three, Co-Founder of The Entrepreneurial
Parent and owner of deBweB, a web design business. Find out more
October is National UNICEF month.
This is the time of year when children
across the United States and Canada help other children all over
the world by
joining UNICEF's "Trick or Treat for UNICEF" campaign.
For the second
consecutive year, UNICEF has developed an online counterpart
to the campaign
In UNICEF's special Halloween
Fun section, children and grown-ups alike can
participate in plenty of Halloween fun and mischief while learning
UNICEF and its life-saving programs. Last year more than 100,000
a *frightfully* good time while UNICEF raised awareness of its
year visitors can:
--> send festive online "treats"
to friends: online coloring books, puzzles,
downloadable wallpaper and cute animations of pumpkins and ghosts;
--> surprise friends with
a devious online "trick:" alarm them (temporarily)
with a melting computer screen, or stump them with a tricky riddle;
--> order UNICEF collection
carton and educational materials online for the
classroom or neighborhood;
--> download a brand new special-edition
screensaver. Also at this site -
- visitors from around the world can make
contributions online to support UNICEF, with proceeds going directly
community-based services in primary health care, basic education,
water and sanitation.
By making National UNICEF month
part of Halloween fun, visitors will be
supporting UNICEF's life-saving projects in more than 160 countries.
Have a happy and safe Halloween!
Support UNICEF: <http://www.supportunicef.org>
UNICEF Tricks & Treats: <http://supportunicef.org/halloween/>
WHAT'S HAPPENING AT EP
EP will be featured at DigitalWork's
Editor's Corner all of next week, at
(check it out!). Also, if you live in the South Florida
area, you can tune in to the "Joyce Hoffman Show" on
WFTL-AM on Nov. 4th
during the noon hour, when Lisa will be discussing "Entrepreneurial
with Joyce. And finally, The Entrepreneurial Parent will be featured
Healthfile, a syndicated monthly newspaper insert promoting physical
psychological well-being, presently scheduled in February.
Publicity for EPs is good news
for all because the larger our EP Community
grows, the more resources will be available to all of us. You
can help by
sharing Lisa's contact info ([email protected])
and deB's contact info
([email protected]) with
any of your local or national media contacts who
cover business and/or parenting issues. Thanks always for your
Meanwhile, at the EP Site you'll
New Info to Go! articles at:
Startling True Confessions of
a Single Mother, http://en-parent.com/Articles/art-cox2.htm
Before Taking That Road...Stop, Look and Listen (on Divorce),
Home Office -- The Childcare Solution?, http://en-parent.com/Articles/art-lederman.htm
New Expert Q&As Available
Part-Time Career Q&As, http://en-parent.com/Experts/exp-collamer-QandA.htm
Low-Cost Marketing Q&As, http://en-parent.com/Experts/exp-clark-QandA.htm
Childcare Q&As, http://en-parent.com/Experts/exp-lederman-QandA.htm
Copy/Cyberwriting Q&As, http://en-parent.com/Experts/exp-vitale-QandA.htm
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